Wendy's Whirled

 

Photograph by Don Curry

Wendy Traskos is not only one of the strongest and sexiest dancers I’ve met, she is also an entrepreneur whose ventures include New York Pole Dancing Studio, Climb and Spin, and United States Pole Dancing Federation.  Amazingly, Wendy did not qualify for the cheerleading team when she was in high school, despite already being a competitive gymnast and having sister Tracy in the team.  But perhaps this early challenge contributed to Wendy’s tendency to push the limits.  Maybe growing up with a father in the military helped too. Rules couldn't be broken, so she sought areas of life where the rules hadn't been defined yet.

From floor: Wendy Traskos, Tracy Traskos and NYPD instructor, Brynlyn Loomis

Sister, Tracy, went to college for Community Health Education, and became a respected bodybuilder and fitness educator. Wendy followed her own path, and—in her final year of high school—her parents told her if she didn’t go to college, she would have to start paying rent.

Photograph by Don Curry

“I left at 18 and never looked back,” said Wendy. “After that, I just figured I could do what I wanted because I did everything all on my own: my own decisions and my own failures and everything.“

“I needed a job when I came to NY.  So eventually I started stripping. My parents would be so proud,” Wendy laughed.

“I never felt uncomfortable about showing my body,” she said. “And I knew that no one could touch me so I was fine with that. I drew a clear line and never stepped over it."

Wendy saved enough money to start her business in 2005, and to employ some of the finest pole dancers in New York including sister, Tracy.  Although running NYPD hasn’t proved as lucrative as stripping, Wendy does it because of her passion for pole, and also because it empowers women, and creates a sense of community.  Pole dancing is a bonding experience for many women, as they push their limits of endurance and strength together.

Photograph by Don Curry

Wendy refined the moves in the Climb and Spin method so they are safe for beginners and for progression to advanced moves. Unlike other studios, New York Pole Dancing requires testing before students perform invert (upside down) moves.

“I am trying to protect the students’ safety,” says Wendy. “Some people see a rivalry between New York Pole Dancing and other studios, but I feel there’s room for everybody.”

Wendy performing at Schtick A Pole In It

New York Pole Dancing offers drop in classes for students of all levels.  Wendy frequently performs at events like the Northwest Championship, Schtick a Pole In It, and the Pulse Project’s Sirens 2.  Currently, Wendy is focusing more on the studio and on Climb and Spin, which she hopes will become a standard method.  Whatever branch of her business she chooses to focus on, Wendy Traskos is clearly a Pole Dancing Pioneer.

145th Belmont Stakes: Horses, Hats and Hoorays

Yuri wearing one of her fascinators

Do horses like to race? Peta says no.  But when Yuri invited me to attend the 145th Belmont Stakes on June 8th, it was less about the horses and more about the hats.

Oh! Audrey created by Yuri

Yuri made three fascinators for the event, one of which was for me, and it had a name: Oh! Audrey.

General Attendance Crowd early in the day

The Belmont Stakes is the final leg of the Triple Crown, which includes the Kentucky Derby and the Preakness Stakes.  This year a different horse won each race in the Triple Crown.  But it’s not just about winning.  It’s also an opportunity to dress up, gamble and have a picnic.

When folding chairs were disallowed, this family brought blow-up chairs

At 10.30am, we were among the first to arrive.  Long lines led out of Belmont Park LIRR station, with two security checks along the way.  According to regular attendees, the rules have become stricter in recent years.  Alcohol and folding chairs are no longer allowed in, although some people have found ways around these rules.

Picnicking with our permitted items, photo by Yuri

At the second checkpoint, I was asked to remove everything from my tote bag and place it in a clear plastic bag. The security guard stared at my many items and then waved me through, saying, “Have a good day.” 

Horses and jockeys preparing for their raceWhen the first horses trotted out for viewing, I was happy to see how healthy they looked, their coats gleaming over their well-muscled flanks.  

Yuri, Monami and I in the front row wearing Yuri's fascinators

We took a spot at the front of the racetrack. Other people set up their parties in the back near the paddock or in the terrace seating.  Early on, the atmosphere was relaxed and there was plenty of space.  As the hour got closer to the 6.36pm Belmont Stakes, the roar of chatter grew and people started cramming into our front row space.

Attendees at the Betting and Cashing Windows

In the spirit of the event, I decided to place a bet: $5 on the number 3 horse, Raven Rise, in the third race to win.  Then I decided to bet again: on 1a, Fast Bullet, in the 7th race. As a bonus, betting for 1a included 1, Justin Phillip.

Fast Bullet!

As the 7th race started, Fast Bullet zoomed out in front, and kept the lead, with Justin Phillip close behind.   And I didn’t see any riding crop come out; the horse was just racing.

Monami learning how to bet

I won $9 for the $5 I had bet on Fast Bullet.  

“Big stakes you’ve got going there,” said the cashier. 

Yuri with some dapper gents

Fashionable ladies at the event

Total betting for the Belmont Stakes, which was won by Palace Malice, reached $88,652,023, and 47,562 people attended. Some paraded in hats and braces, while others relaxed in shorts and flip-flops.  There was something for everyone, and until someone proves otherwise, I will choose to believe the horses were happy too.