Lost Connections

Does anyone know Ian from Windsor who met Meg at Bestival in the Isle of Wight during Elton John’s set? Meg wants to find Ian and the ring she put in his pocket and somehow she thinks I can help.

Have you ever met someone who fascinated you and never seen them again? Stories of lost connections fascinate me, especially when people find each other at the end. Meg contacted me through my blog and told me about some lost items including cash, a visa debit card, a ring (“of huge sentimental value”) and a young man named Ian.

Meg on the right "the original calamity Jane, Pandora, Miss congeniality etc"

As Meg tells it, “During Elton's (fantastic, by the way) set at Bestival, an American girl tapped me on the shoulder, trying to get me together with her friend… I laughed it off but he was so very polite when he asked me to dance to Candle In The Wind that I said yes.”

the elusive Ian

Ian was 6’2, “beefy,” and possibly “the only true gent at Bestival.” As Meg said, “What's a girl to do?”





The new friends danced together through the set. Then Ian and some others gallantly laid their coats on the rain-dampened ground for the group to sit on. While they ate together and enjoyed each other’s company, Meg put her valuables away.  She is usually very careful but “distracted by hunger/tiredness/rain/noise/OH MY LIFE I JUST SAW ELTON JOHN! I put my handful of things into the pocket of the coat I was sitting on, NOT the coat I was wearing! So this Ian has my stuff!”

A sudden downpour caused the group to disperse without exchanging numbers or checking their pockets.

“Everyone is trying to make this the love story of the century,” wrote Meg- “which is sweet and a lovely idea but I don't wanna freak this poor guy out- I just NEED my ring back!”

“This is just a simple story of lost and found," Meg continued, "or maybe something more... this could be my only link to the stranger I fell for and my ring.”

Meg’s only concern is that he may have been a bit tipsy and had a lapse of memory.  Thus far there has been no sign of Ian, so once again:

Does anyone know Ian from Windsor who met Meg at the Bestival in the Isle of Wight during Elton John’s set?

The Pubs of Old Windsor

Old Windsor Parish Church on Easter Sunday 2013Although I grew up in Old Windsor, I rarely visited the drinking establishments there, of which there are six.  On my most recent visit, I decided to find out what went on behind the doors of Old Windsor’s pubs.  Old Windsor is a village of 5,000 people with one recreation ground, one youth center, three hairdressers, four convenience stores, one restaurant, two takeaways, three churches, five pubs, and one members' club.

The Harvester, on the site of The Bells of Ouzely, Old Windsor

My first stop was the Harvester, a popular chain, on the site of The Bells of Ouzely, the oldest pub in Old Windsor. The Bells of Ouzely was built in 1300 and used to supply beer to Windsor Castle.  Apparently, six bells, which all had names like Douce and Hauteeter, were being moved from Osney Abbey by monks, and were sunk in the Thames River across the road and that’s how the pub got its name. 

The Fox and Castle, Old WindsorMy next stop was the Fox and Castle. Bar persons, Charlotte and Tony, told me the original location was across the road and its original name was the Fox and Punchbowl. The green in front of the pub used to be a pond.  The most popular item on their menu is pork belly, which Charlotte loves also.

The Oxford Blue, Old Windsor

Owner, Mandy, took over The Oxford Blue on Crimp Hill, a year ago.  The bar is cozy and spacious with a big garden and playing area out back.  On April 5th, a Rod Stewart tribute singer will entertain customers. In June, Mandy will hold an Elton John party with chairs set out in front of the pub, so customers can watch celebrities pass by on their way to Elton John’s White Tie and Tiara Ball.

The Union Inn, Old Windsor

Right next door is the Union Inn, a restaurant bar and boutique inn.  The manager’s phone was ringing off the hook while I tried to squeeze in a few questions, and a circle of old regulars chatted in a corner.  There are several signed photographs of Elton John on the wall.

The Jolly Gardeners, Old Windsor

The Jolly Gardeners has a friendly and quaint exterior, and a comfy interior.  They have been included in the Good Beer Guide five years in a row, and welcome dogs and families. But I didn't learn much about the pub on my visit there.

"You'd best come back when the manager is here," said the barperson, "John."

The Old Windsor Club

Next I stopped at the Old Windsor Club.  It costs £20 per year to join, but guests are welcome.

“The drinks are half the price here,” said regulars Graham and John.  “You can get a pint of Fosters for £2.50. The other places charge about £3.90.”

Fosters, incidentally, is the most popular beer in Old Windsor and vodka is the most popular spirit, straight or with coke.

The Old Windsor Club has a snooker room and a social hall that they use for events such as the Blondie tribute singer booked for April 6th. 

The Toby Carvery, originally called The Wheatsheaf, Old Windsor

The Toby Carvery on Straight Road also houses the Innkeepers Lodge.  The Carvery menu with unlimited vegetables, roasties and mash is very popular. Two travelling workers told me the drink prices were great, especially for the area.

Great granddaughter of Pete and Pat, wearing leopard print, with friends and family in The Old Windsor Club

Old Windsor pubs seem to be mostly occupied by families or men out with their mates.  I did see a few single ladies on my way home, in the Old Windsor Fish shop. So those are the drinking establishments of Old Windsor, home of Saxon Kings.